Author: Miss. Nerima

I remember when we were young, we rarely ever cared who had rolls where on their bodies. You were either fat or thin. And kids can be mean, you know this. If you’ve ever watched This Is Us, you’ll understand this from Kate’s perspective. It’s one thing to deal with mean kids on the playground; […]

I’m writing this as I listen to my mellow Saturday night mix, and the song on replay is Rihanna’s Love On The Brain. This song is easily one of my favorite Rihanna songs for several reasons, but tonight we will address one. Has it ever occurred to you guys that the mind is the biggest […]

Before I got married, I encouraged my then fiancé to have a civil relationship with my baby daddy, just so my son wouldn’t have to grow up thinking the two men in both our lives hated each other’s guts. Now my ex husband (the marriage didn’t last) was an extremely jealous and vindictive type, I’m […]

I have often wondered why, when a couple’s nudes are leaked, the blame lands squarely on the woman’s shoulders. It’s like she was the only one who was captured naked, and it’s like she was the only one who was in the photos. From then comes the name calling, slut shaming, body shaming and everything […]

In relation to my post Who Should Be Ashamed, let’s address this culture of shaming women for the way they dress or requiring them to “cover up” in the presence of men. Growing up, my Father always told me to “cover up” or dress a certain way because it was “decent” or “respectable”. Little did […]