Sex and Love

Do you know what consent is? Wikipedia defines it as permission for something to happen or agreement to do something. In matters sex and love, it simply means don’t assume your partner is automatically up to doing something with you simply because of their station in your life. By this, I am referring especially to […]

  Once upon a time, I was married. Two years and three months later, I left that marriage. I can chalk it down to the reality of it as opposed to the expectations set by our public declaration of love in the form of a wedding and grand 500 guest reception. During said reception, I […]

For those of you who have watched Scandal – Shonda Rhimes’ political drama that aired its final episode this April, we all rooted for Olitz in the beginning. Despite the fact that she was the mistress, we rooted for Olivia and Fitz’s love. And as the series developed, we learn that Mellie – the First […]

Personal space; a concept unknown to and misunderstood by many. It simply means not to stand uncomfortably close to someone, touching them when they don’t want to be touched or literally breathing down their necks. It’s irritating. And uncomfortable. And so very annoying! Girls and women suffer the most when it comes to personal space, […]

  I love the internet; it’s my source of information, knowledge, opportunities and of course, my one stop shop for creeps and weirdos looking to score a night of passion. No, not necessarily Tinder (I abhor the app!) but just the good old internet. Twitter, Instagram, my personal blog and email. As long as my […]

Unpopular opinion: men are extremely insecure and they project their insecurities on their significant others. I’ll elucidate, with real life experiences. There was once a boy I knew, who liked me a lot, and in his mind I was going to be his wife. Little did he know that I was not about to get […]

  Ladies, would you reach out to your crush first? Or would you rather hope and pray they notice you exist, and somehow feel compelled by the Holy Spirit to have a conversation with you? I know most guys would (they are programmed to chase) although lately they shy away from shooting their shots. I […]