10 Ways To Find Yourself Again After Being Shattered By A Breakup

All the sweet messages, the flowers, dinner dates, the lengthy handwritten letters, inside jokes – everything; they’re all gone now and you’re feeling like a deer in the headlights with not a clue what to do.

You just keep thinking it’s a bad dream and that tomorrow everything will go back to normal. You pray your hardest that he’ll come back and that things are going to be fine. But the truth is, things are going to be pretty difficult for awhile.

1. Give yourself time to grieve.

2. Let the emotions flow, but don’t let the breakup consume you.

3. Stop blaming yourself.

4. Distance yourself from the source of hurt.

5. It’s okay to be angry, as long as it doesn’t consume you either.

6. Be the better person.

7. Try looking at the brighter side of things.

8. Focus on yourself now.

9. Don’t give up on love just because some guy chose to give up on you.

10. Love yourself enough to know that you deserve the very best.