NATALIE AND KALALA TALK DEAL BREAKERS IN FEMALE FRIENDSHIPS
Written by Caroline Wamuyu on July 6, 2023
What are some of the things that you consider top deal breakers in female friendships?
When our female friendships thrive, they can serve as invaluable wellsprings of solace, encouragement, and affection. However, there are instances when these friendships can deteriorate, either due to negligence or the manifestation of unfavorable conduct.
Terminating a friendship can be an emotionally wrenching experience, comparable in its intensity to the conclusion of a romantic relationship. Platonic friendships are a beast of their own as they present a unique set of challenges. These bonds with women can be family to us in times of distress, serving as the comforting presence that absorbs our tears when we feel defeated. But sometimes we have to admit that friendships fade and the once abundant support dwindles.
In such instances, we may find ourselves compelled to make the difficult decision of ending these bonds. Nonetheless, executing these decisions proves to be considerably more challenging than merely uttering words.
” sisi ni marafiki lakini manze kuwa na doo!!siezi kuwa nimeomba watu tisa 2k urgently an hakuna mwenye ako nayo” King Kalala says to natalie during a youtube video. Friends often rely on each other for support during difficult times, including financial crises. If one friend is going through a challenging financial situation and requires assistance. Not having someone to depend on can lead to feelings of isolation and abandonment. The friend needs to navigate through their situation, potentially straining the friendship. In the video, the two also emphasize getting into relationships with men who have money.
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Financial transactions between friends such as borrowing or lending money, can introduce complexities and potential conflicts. If one friend consistently asks for financial assistance or fails to repay borrowed amounts, it can strain the friendship and create a sense of resentment or mistrust.