HOW TO KNOW THAT HE/SHE IS CHEATING — copy

Have you cheated or been cheated on before? Well, A secret affair is like a bombshell. You feel shocked, enraged and humiliated. You feel betrayed; But for many people, the worst part isn’t the act itself, but the secrecy.

So, If you’re in a relationship with your partner and happen to sleep with someone you met earlier that night at a party, and don’t tell your other partner about it in a timely manner, that could be an act of infidelity.

So be it, Emotional or  physical cheating, your partner might start reacting differently to different scenarios. Here are some tips on how to know that there is another person:

FLITCH WHEN YOU TOUCH THEIR PHONE

Several data breaches have proven similar reactions when your partner’s smartphone was left lying around. Whether it was forgotten in pockets, and calls and texts were missed. If you happen to touch their phone, there is some kind of defensiveness in them or they are being so protective when it comes to their devices.

You might also notice some changes. Either your partner is constantly sending messages. The phone is always angled away from you. They are constantly scrambling to keep the phone within reach. During bedtime hours, their phones are always tucked under the pillow. This is a common red flag.

START DOING THINGS THAT THEY NEVER DID

When you start a relationship, you may be used to texting and calling all the time. Now that the relationship has grown and matured, those kinds of behavior have tapped off!

When there is less need to impress each other, then something must be going wrong somewhere.

YOUR PARTNER DOES NOT PICK CALLS

When your partner’s starts texting a lot and they don’t name the recipient, or they downplay the importance of their correspondence, We end up questioning their actions. They may become overly defensive when confronted. This behavior proves that definitely something fishy is happening.

TRUST  YOUR INTUITION/GUT

Most people respect each other’s privacy, but suspicions might arise due to certain changes in behavior. A sixth sense, or gut feeling: Whatever you choose to call it, the sudden flash of insight from deep within can inspire plenty of faith.

The old saying “trust your gut” refers to trusting these feelings of intuition. Following your instinct can certainly direct you toward the best path for you. Those gut feelings do mean something, and they can often help you make good future choices with your current situation in your relationship.