Pastor Harrison – “Stop calling your woman mummy”.

Bishop Harrison, the City Preacher and Founder of the Christian Foundation Fellowship (CFF), has advised couples to avoid calling each other “mummy” and “daddy.” 

He believes that using these terms can create excessive familiarity, which may result in a loss of feelings and attraction between partners.

‘When you call your husband daddy he will end up marrying someone else. How can both you and the kids call him daddy? Itabidid awaletee mama yao.”

To the men, he advised; 

“Stop calling your woman mummy, if you call her mum with time mnaanza kuangaliana kama mama na mtoto. She might end up looking for someone else.”

He also cautioned that if a baby daddy returns to “apologize,” it may lead to intimacy again.

“Mahali umewahi kugongewa, unaweza gongewa tena. The person who gave you kids, even if you see him as a devil with horns, can impregnate you again. If he humbles himself before you, you may end up having a second child with him,”

Pastor Ng’ang’a once shared a personal experience, saying;

“I know of a lady who had one child. After her baby daddy apologized, they ended up having a second child. The man told her he was married and would only support the kids. However, the support led to her getting pregnant with two more children, making her a mother of four.”

He also advised young men against marrying too early, urging them to exercise patience.

“Who told you to get married at 21? By the time you reach 27, you may meet your Mr. Right. Men are marrying too early, and when they get home, they often struggle to communicate effectively. Being disturbed by a woman is what we call marriage,” he said.

On a different occasion, he shared his views on why many pastors have affairs with their congregants’ wives. Speaking during a mass wedding ceremony, the preacher urged men to learn to listen and pay attention when their spouses communicate with them. 

“Sikiliza bibi. Learn to listen even if it doesn’t make sense. Sikiliza. Elezwa watoto hawafanani, ujue vile utasema. That’s what it means to have a wife. The right approach is to sit with your wife and listen to her, even if you’re sleepy. Listen to her while sipping coffee,” he preached. 

He added, “Wanawake wanapenda kusikilizwa. The main purpose of being together is to listen to your wife. Sometimes, I listen to my wife until 2 AM,” he shared. 

Ng’ang’a also advised men to turn off the television when their wives want to talk, noting that men cannot multitask as well as women can.

Don’t destroy your marriage at the table room; talk to her and listen,” he urged.

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