Julie Gichuru gives scotching advice to young man who asked to be her Toy boy

At 43, Julie Gichuru is one stunning lady and once in a while, her fans take time to appreciate her.

While many usually flatter her with some very “sweet” and “lovely” comments, other go straight to the point and tell her their deepest desires.

Gichuru was recently forced to clear things up after one fan, based in Qatar, posted a rather awkward comment on her Instagram page asking whether she wanted a boy toy. To begin with, Gichuru wasn’t happy that the fan missed her name and, wasn’t impressed at all by his poor English at all. She let him known she has a man.

“Dear Sir 
Thank you for taking the time to share a comment on my platform. Allow me first to clarify that my name is Julie, not Judy,” Went Gichuru’s reply.

“I felt motivated to respond to your comment because you say you are working hard hustling in Qatar. I congratulate you for your effort. I also noted that you seemed to offer or suggest that you are available as a ‘toy boy’, allow me to say that’s not my thing, not at all. I am happily married to a Simba and by the grace of God we shall grow old together.

While I do not judge your apparent willingness to be a ‘toy boy’ allow me to speak to you as a mother would to her son. We all start somewhere, very few are born at the top. Indeed, out of the few that are born at the top, many end up at the bottom if they cannot work hard and work smart. You are therefore underselling yourself and demeaning your own value through derogatory references to your ‘status’. You are a hardworking man, stand tall with your back straight and your head held high. Have pride in yourself. Focus your heart and mind on your goal and step by step, work towards it. There is no shame in hustling, I worked three jobs at one time in University, one of those jobs was literally hard labour, a twelve hour overnight shift in a baking factory. Indeed, there is no shame in your hustle, maisha ‘ni kujipanga my fren’. Fanya kazi kwa bidii, and take pride in that.

Embrace and understand your value and stop offering yourself to women you really don’t know, and underselling yourself while you are at it. Take pride in who you are, make a plan and then live knowing that each and every person is special, is worthy, is of value because each of us are made in the image of the Almighty and HE knows YOUR name!

I wish you all the best on your journey of life,

Blessings,

Julie Gathoni Sumira wa Gichuru

PS: Please, do learn to punctuate. It will be of great help should you need to communicate with potential employers, business partners etc.”