Amber Ray – “I wasn’t the first ‘side chick’.”

Kenyan socialite Amber Ray has defended herself against criticism for her past as a side chick, saying she has learned from her mistakes. 

Ray was once a second wife to a prominent businessman and expressed her thoughts in a recent statement:

“It’s surprising how many people are inundating my DMs with insults just because I shared my opinion about Annie’s situation. 

I’ve been labelled a hypocrite and accused of causing other women pain because I was once a second wife. 

Let me clarify: I have shared my truth openly. Yes, I was a second wife, but I did not know he was married. 

I was deceived, used, and left to carry all the blame a burden I accepted as a lesson. I even shared my journey on YouTube because I refuse to hide from my past.”

Amber Ray continued, addressing her critics, saying, “While people criticize me, other women are still becoming someone’s side chick.

Let’s be honest, I wasn’t the first or the last ‘side chick.’ However, I’ve taken responsibility for my mistakes, embraced my truth, and moved forward to live my best life unapologetically.” 

Earlier, Ray expressed her sympathies for Annie Idibia after the singer revealed they had parted ways. 

For years, 2Face has faced allegations of humiliating his wife by cheating and having children with other women.

“My heart breaks for Annie. After 25 years of marriage, I can’t even begin to imagine what she’s experiencing the pain, the betrayal, and the overwhelming emotions.

On top of that, enduring relentless attacks on social media. It’s a lot for one person to handle. Annie, if you ever see this, please know I’m sending you love, strength, and warm hugs. You don’t deserve this.”

Ray advised women to prioritise their well-being: “Her story is a heartbreaking reminder for all women to put themselves first. 

Whether you have children or not, and regardless of your relationship status, you owe it to yourself to prioritise your happiness, mental health, and emotional well-being. 

Walking away from a relationship is never easy, especially with children involved. Society can be harsh towards single mothers, and the judgment can feel overwhelming. 

But always remember: your children deserve a happy mom,a mom who is emotionally and mentally healthy, not one who is drained by a relationship that no longer serves her.”

She concluded, “At the end of the day, we as mothers are the constants in our kids’ lives. While fathers may be somewhat present, we are the ones they rely on every single day. 

How can we provide them with the love and support they need if we are stuck in situations that break us?”

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