How to make your partner miss you when s/he is taking you for granted

A little appreciation is nice, especially from the one you love. But maybe your partner doesn’t appreciate you. Or, at least, they don’t show it. And no matter how much you give or do, it doesn’t seem to make a difference.

Sometimes couples find themselves in dramatic situations and after that they start avoiding each other, sort off, until the atmosphere between them normalizes.

But some other partners just wake up in the morning and start avoiding you, or simply start taking you for granted. So what do you do when you find yourself in such a position? Here are some few tips;-

1. Give her/him space. It’s possible that your boo is mad at you, but it’s also possible that she’s going through something tough that has nothing to do with you. This will give you time to see whether she’ll come back or not. It also gives them time to collate themselves.
2. When he/she communicates take time before you respond the messages and/or calls. Don’t rush back . You know, kinda like you create the impression that you were just not there waiting for them to reach out.
3. Stay busy, let them see you have a life.
4. Avoid going to his or her place. If you’re always available for anyone you don’t give them room to miss you. Go missing for once
5. And when you finally talk to him/her, be the first one to end the conversation
6. Don’t force a resolution. Let it come naturally
7. Understand why he/she was ignoring or avoiding you. Give them space and time to talk without interference
8. If he/she is intentionally ignoring you because he has a problem, then, now is the time to set aside your own feelings and be the caring partner in order to find out how you can fix the issue that started the whole silent treatment
9. Its just never that serious.