THE MALE G-SPOT

Yes, men have a G-Spot, just like women. Some men even call it the P-Spot, as in prostate, which is a gland located inside the body right behind the testicles. It is mostly accessed through the anal opening, and at this point most of the male readers have either dropped off or are cringing in disgust. Mostly because any suggestion of putting anything inside a man’s anal opening is taboo, and they would much rather not do it. So if you feel adventurous enough to try it on your man, a whole lot of discussion and sharing literature needs to be done beforehand. And of course, consent is the most important part of this.

Older men who have undergone regular prostate exams confess that as invasive as the exam itself is, the sensation is quite exquisite. Those that have gone ahead to explore it sexually further confirm that the orgasm is much more powerful than the single penile ejaculation. Those who are not willing to try it beyond the prostate exam compromise by having the perineum gently rubbed, which stimulates the P-Spot. The perineum is the area between the scrotum and anal opening, which is on the opposite end of the prostate.

Growing up and living in a highly patriarchal society, and being socialized into believing that men can only orgasm one way has conditioned the vast majority of men to believe that sexual exploration is something to be done to, for and by women for women only. A little open mindedness and sense of wonder can greatly improve the male sexual experience. Take your time, think about it and do extensive research. Just don’t do something simply because “it’s cool” and you end up not enjoying it – the best way to truly savor anything is to deeply desire and crave it first.